Not sure if anyone will see this, but I need advice on my husband who is a driving instructor. I am finding inappropriate messages between him and female students. Some are past students which he constant texts. Some of the girls are very young. I have approached him regarding this and his excuse is he puts them at ease. He's been an instructor for 30 yrs and no complaints been made against him but as his wife this has destroyed our marriage. I save some of these messages and can't believe he thinks this is professional or normal behaviour to these students. What does anyone suggest I do?